Condolence: As I contemplate your ashes, I am remembering you..... The day we slow danced on the sidewalk, to the music of a downtown concert. Shopping for rings, crystals, and sometimes just window shopping. watching anime and movies, eating pizza, lots of pizza :) Your enjoyment of my cooking, our laughter when that cooking went awry. Taking turns doing the laundry even when you didn't want to. I can laugh now, at our fervid arguments, over how to fix a computer; you to format, me to fix the software; always telling me I did things the hard way. Playing with the cats you loved; Spooforte, Midnight and Simba. I'm sure they are with there with you. We were both stubborn and well set in our ways. We fought, loved, laughed, and cried, together and apart. We said many things to each other, over the years. I think we said it all, but we never said goodbye. I'll not say it, even now. Be at peace, love, the peace you seemed never to find in life. Be at peace.